Today,
I got a chance to be in a room in the clubhouse about the law of attraction.
And it was so empowering and inspiring that I couldn't stop taking notes.
And I was like okay I want to share my notes, my key takeaway with you because
I do believe it can really make a difference in your life.
Self-talk and limiting belief.
Let's start with self-talk.
Do not fight your self-talk.
Self-talk can be either positive or negative right?
If you do believe that you can do something there’s
a strong chance that you can do it,
but if you do believe that you can't do something,
you are right you can't do it.
So either way, you are right.
Now it's up to you to choose your right.
You have the power to change your thoughts.
Don't fight your negative self-talk but change the focus.
If I tell you to not think about a real flower,
unconsciously the first thing that you will do is to think about a real flower.
So self-talks are here, they are powerful.
Now it's not about you fighting: oh I don't want to think about this real flower,
I don't want to think about this real flower because the more you will fight it,
the more you will think about it.
But it is to acknowledge your thoughts and to change the focus.
So because I'm telling you to not think about a real flower you could put your focus on
a big elephant.
So now you are thinking about the pink elephant,
you are not thinking about what you are not supposed to think about.
You see what I mean, and I found it very powerful because you know when we want
to fight our negative self-talk it's hard, the more we fight it the more we amplify it.
But instead of fighting it, we decide to put our focus and our thoughts
on something that is different and that's the key here.
If you truly believe there is no limit to what you can achieve,
you will be able to achieve anything in life.
You have the ability to be and do everything you feel in your heart.
I repeat, you have the ability to be and to do everything you feel in your heart.
Oftentimes we don't follow our hearts because we fear criticism,
and if you decide to follow your heart you will at some point face criticism.
But it's very important to stay true to your heart and because of this fear of facing
criticism, for being who we truly are we find excuses.
An excuse is us giving a voice to our fears.
When we give ourselves excuses and usually it's really quite easy to find excuses to
justify not doing something that would be so much aligned with who we are, so much
aligned with our heart, but because we fear criticism, it's us giving a voice,
giving power to our fears.
So you have two choices:
either you don't follow your heart and you don't believe that
you are limitless and you will find yourself in a cage forever,
or you decide to follow your
heart and to be free, to be you,
and to do what you want to do in your life with your life.
And the thing that we don't realize often time,
depending on our environment, depending
on our community, the culture, and all of this, but you are limitless.
And being limitless, is having the freedom to choose the life you want to pursue.
If you don't choose the life you want to pursue because you fear criticism, then
you are not free.
There are a couple of positive self-affirmations and
I want to encourage you to repeat after me.
You can tell yourself those positive self-affirmations all day long because repetition is what trains your brain and your subconscious to believe in it.
So the more you say it the more your subconscious will believe it.
There are no limits to what I can achieve.
I am limitless to what I can accomplish.
It's my destiny to accomplish great things.
I have limited potential.
Every action I take brings me closer to my dream.
I am limitless.
So repeat those self-positive affirmations as much as you can.
Train your mindsets, your subconscious to believe it.
Something else that is very powerful is that we gotta stop searching outside of ourselves. Stop searching for something better.
Stop searching for the answers outside of yourself because it's already here.
You have it.
It all starts from within.
You have to believe in it first that there is unlimited money in the world.
You have to believe first that there are no limits to what you can achieve.
You have to believe first that you have the choice.
So it all starts from within before we start looking for answers outside of ourselves.
I'm gonna give you an example of the power of your beliefs.
The example of the baby elephant and how you see those big elephants in a
park in a camp where they have just one chain of holding their foot.
One of their feet they could easily break those chains, but they don't do it, they don't
try it, they don't even try to escape.
Why?
And this is where it's powerful.
When you put a baby elephant in the camp.
The baby elephant believes that he can't break the chain, but as the baby elephant grows
he still believes that he cannot break the chain, and because he believes it he doesn't try
to escape when actually it could easily break the chain once he's an adult.
And here is the power of your belief.
If you keep believing in something, it becomes your own reality when actually it's not
true, it's not even true it's not even close to reality but this is the reality that you have created in your head and that you believe in.
So if you believe that you can be successful,
this is the most important step to achieve success.
It's not about your experience, it's not about the degrees,
it's not about all the outside things. It's about what's happening here again.
So you want to break yourself from your own limiting belief and I will conclude with this
sentence that is very powerful: “pick what you see until you see what you say.”
Pick what you see until you see what you say.
I will leave it here if you would like more topics about the mindset let me know?
Let me know in the comment and
I will be happy to talk more often about it.
Bye bye.